Giving Presence
John 1:14 (ESV)
“And the Word became flesh and dwelt among us, and we have seen His glory, glory as of the only Son from the Father, full of grace and truth.”
Christmas begins with nearness.
God did not remain distant from human need. He did not send instructions, resources, or explanations first. He came Himself. The Word became flesh and chose to dwell among us. Presence was God’s first gift.
In Scripture, love consistently moves toward people. God’s solution to separation was incarnation. He entered time, space, weakness, and limitation. He stepped into our world, not from a distance, but from within. Presence was not symbolic; it was personal.
Many people today do not lack information or resources as much as they lack presence. They need someone willing to show up, listen, sit, and stay. Christmas reminds us that being with others often matters more than saying the right thing or doing something impressive.
The shepherds did not receive a sermon or a strategy. They were invited to come and see. God’s glory was revealed through proximity. Presence made revelation tangible. What heaven announced became real when they drew near.
Giving presence requires intention. It costs time, attention, and comfort. It means slowing down enough to notice people instead of rushing past them. Presence cannot be delegated or automated. It must be offered personally.
Jesus did not hurry past broken people. He walked with them, ate with them, and entered their stories. The incarnation teaches us that love shows up before it speaks and remains before it leaves.
This Christmas, giving presence may be the most Christlike gift we offer.
Not everyone needs something from your hands.
Many need your nearness.
Reflection Questions
Who in my life needs my presence more than my solutions?
Where have I been distracted, distant, or unavailable when God is calling me to show up?
What would it look like for me to intentionally give my time and attention to others today?
Prayer Focus
Pray for a heart that values presence over productivity.
Ask God to open your eyes to people who need you to be near.
Ask for grace to slow down and make room for others.
Prayer
Father, thank You for coming near to us through Jesus.
Thank You for giving Yourself, not from a distance, but in love and humility.
Forgive me for moments when I have been too busy or distracted to be present with others.
Teach me to reflect Your heart by showing up with patience and compassion.
Help me give my time, attention, and presence freely.
Use my nearness to reflect Your love to those around me.
In Jesus’ name, amen.
